I'm not sure I have the energy right now to write all this out. Let's just say for now that it's been a horrible month for me emotionally, and that I'm being ganged up on both by my son's biodad's mother (who betrayed the only request I've ever made of her) and his adoptive mom (who is very nice except when she's being a tremendously cold biatch).
Any adoptive parents/birthparents out there to commiserate with?
BTW, I never married the jerk, which is why his mother is not technically an in-law.