Miss_A
just keep in mind always that you are reading adults at various ages of our own regression and maturity and cognition- so that we are in no way a benchmark or model of functional adult behavior at all times. . .we don't say things to each other , in general , that are overtly wrong and with intentional malice-
however, that does not equate with being specifically right or correct or harmless. . .
do what you do in the creative forum- you do that so well and we enjoy your writing. . .for mental health advice seek out the mentally healthy to follow. . .