I didn't mean this quote to be taken negatively. I surely didnt mean to offend anyone if i did.

I know for my self that I have been thinking of making some changes about me. I know in order for them to work, that I have to be honest with my self. I have to want to change these things, for me not any one else. If I do not honestly want to change them, then it wont work... does that make sense to anyone?

so please if i offeneed anyone with this, I apologize.

Oh yeah and Pat, That is the way to go........ sliding in sideways saying what a life i had!!!!! lol