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Originally Posted by fibrorobin
I haven't been here in a long time. I am really depressed. I love my husband and I do not want to lose him. It is the worst possible thing I could have imagined.
We do not have any kids by the way.
I am having the hardest time accepting he is gay. I am depressed and non-functioning.
I do not hate him.
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Oh dear...that's so sad...I'm so sorry for you who are going trough such a difficulty....
I think you don't have really a choice rather than accepting the situation and if you love him, just wish him happiness....He's not the only guy on the earth....you will find another love in your life...
just one thing I want to add....my friend is major in bio-Chemistry...He told me that being gay or straight is really in the DNA of the person....
so, you can't really do anything about it....just time will heal your wounds....
poor guy, he might have struggle with it for his whole life...honesty, it's better that he told you now rather than after having kids and then imagine how awful it would be for kids....
If you want to feel a little bit better, watch "Friends" TV shows, Changler's father is gay....
Just look at the whole thing in your life as a story, as a movie....just watch it and accept it....you will be fine....my thoughts are with you
with love
Marjan