saying that i take a lot of chances, dosn't mean that i don't think about it first...most of the time, i think about it for a very long time. i took the chance to work for Willie Nelson....he was totally unheard of then....by stepping out there, i made a friend for life, heard music, and met people that i consider to be beyond the pale in creativity and got to leave my abusive husband, because i made enough $ to do so.......being honest about it is a given.