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first, no judgement from beads, EVER......
[/SIZE]You bet what you wrote made sense!!!!! Very much so....
beads had ed once upon a tyime...(all the way down to 72 punds & a feeding tube at her worst ) . We did not realize that the control thing was what started it ( we was like 14 or 15 ) and so wish that we had......it would of been so meuch easier to help our self get gooder if we would of understood it more. The understanding did not come untile we was in our mid twenties,,, that is when our real healing from ed at least began. It was a battle that we maybe would not of had to fite for so long had we unnerstood what was behind it.
anyway, just a gentle reminder that You are good,
You are strong,
You are compassionate,
You are courageous......
It IS okay to love yourself too, you deserve to be treated with love and respect by both yourself and others......
one step, one day, and/or one moment at a time you will get there......
p.s. how's the new apt. working out?
you have already come such a long way since beads has been talking to you here............
hopefully together we can Both continue to beat our obstacles
sending you our best,
along with love, hugs and teddy bears,
mary sue
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...can..
.....will.....
just.............see
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http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305
Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them."
~ Hugh Miller
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