I have been single for 3 years now and a lot of the time I so hope to find the one for me. I have chated online and texted but that's as far as it gets. I find all these things wrong before I even meet them. One txted at the wrong time of day. One told me he wanted to cuddle but said it multiple times and it drove me nuts so he's off my list. I think I am afraid of the contact. I've had some bad experiences in the past. Ones I'm not ready to share. Maybe they have made it impossible for me to get close to someone. It wldnt be so bad but I long for the contact yet have panic attacks if I even think their is a real possibility it cld happen. I don't know if their is anything that will help but I keep hoping