Hello,

Well where do i start. I met this person on the net 4 yrs ago. We became really good friends and just last month decided to meet. We met and hit it off great. We got very "close" that weekend. One big problem tho, she is living with someone.

Well after she went back home the following week we talked alot how great a time we had together. We constantly called each other and told each other how much we miss each other. It got to the point where she decide to come live with me. We planned everything and arranged the move for her to come here. Two days before she was to come she canceled. The reason she gives me is the she is having problems not remembering her past, she is only 20. She tells me she is tired of running from place to place just because she is reminded of it and she is also tired of crying over something she doesnt even know about. She also say with new relationships they just make her forget her problems for a little while but when she realizes they are still there, and the other person knows something is wrong, and they try to help her, she runs. She says she doesnt run because they try to help her, but because she is constantly reminded of the problem by the other person.

Im trying to be supportive about this but i dont even know what to do. I know this wasnt some sort of *BS* excuse because she had talked to me about this problem long before we ever decide to meet. Now i am also hurting because of all this. She tells me I am her closest friend and she is very sorry about what has happened. In 3 weeks she is suppose to come visit me again. I dont know if it is the right thing to do but i also dont think i can say no to her coming. Please if you can, can you recommend anything i can do. Also if you can recommend a book, a website anything so that i can help her with her problem.

Thx you