He will tell you "sure, yea, come one! Totally!". My feeling is no. Currently we are just friends. I've never made any moves on him (yes, it did cross my mind, he's cute) because of my inner gut telling me that he is not over her. They got divorced more than a year ago. I really do feel that she was the love of his life. She had walked out on him several times before they were married (like 3 times) and he always took her back.
He asked me to join him on a 4-day trip to this really romantic place. I'm confused about this. We are friends. We are friends...and I got to keep telling myself this so I don't end up doing something stupid (I'm saying this because I'm horribly alone in my own personal life, 32 and never had a boyfriend).

As we were planning out our trip and getting excited about it he slipped out a "...yea, that's what we had done last time!". Referring to a time when he had gone there with his ex wife. 1) I was surprised that he wanted to spend this much money to RE-visit a place, 2) I'm sure images and memories will be flooding his brain during our stay, 3) He will probably want to go to every restaurant and every beach they had gone together. My question: Is this a trip among friends (?), or is this his trip down to memory lane...I mean...should I bring tissues with me???

Men....and I mean all of them, have always seen me only as a good friend. They all have expressed that I am the coolest girl they have ever met but....nothing more than that. So far NOBODY has ever felt romantically or serious about me. Anyway.....I'm guessing he asked me to go with him only cause he didn't want to be alone. At first I thought "hurray! he wants to spend so much time with me! Maybe he also wants give it a try!".

I'm afraid that he doesn't care so much about making memories with me, I'm just a presence to keep him company while he travels in his past.