white iris, how special and caring of you to ask that question! thank you for that.

you can read the guidelines for this forum in the sticky thread at the top by docjohn. other than that, if you type something that would be triggery, please just place the trigger icon on it. it lets any reader know that it contains material that could be triggering. that's about it.

we don't speak of personal matters containing other members here in the public forums and refrain from flaming...either of which i can't see you doing anyhow you're a sweet soul.

talk about what you need to and place the trigger icon on it. i warns the poster that it might not be pretty. also, refrain from indepth religious or political talk. of course, everyone mentions one or the other or both, but "sermons" or "political debate" can get nasty. refrain from being sexually explicit.

if you need to talk about something hard, talk about it. the icon lets the reader know to stop and take a self assessment of the place they're in before entering.

gl. i'll hear you.

kd