Hi ... I'm in a long distance relationship ...well was (long story) still am.

Anyways, we had this problem where he didn't always just let me know that he was ok. I didn't even expect him to always spend time with me because of his busy schedule, but at the very least to let me know he was ok.

My point is when you are in a long distance relationship it is very much harder...especially to go for days with no communication what so ever.

You are not coming of needy. There needs to be compromise. If there is a problem that your having...there is simply a problem that needs to be discussed.

My boyfriend understood what I was saying and new he wasn't being fair given the situation and made efforts to try to leave messages and letting me know he was okay.

There needs to be give and take and compromise on both your parts.

Hopefully you two can just talk and be able to communicate your needs...that is essential in any relationship, but definately in a long distance one.

Good luck.

Eva