MacD....I have given your response a lot of thought!!!! When I first read your words, my mouth literally dropped open, and I have been thinking about what you have said all afternoon. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but I think you are right! For some reason of denial on my part, I have been unable to see this truth! I am going to print the responses I've rec'd here and keep referring to the insights you and others have shared with me .
Thanks,
Seerker