Hi Miss A. I can't put an age on here. If there were computers when I was 11 I would have been on them looking for comfort. At 11, I was defensive and defiant and wouldn't let people in that easily but I was aware enough to know what was happening and how much pain I was in. I was 11, others are other ages. I don't want to trigger anyone, but all of the abuse got worse at that age, as did the total disreguard for my humanity. Age is a very relative thing. I have a wise co-worker who is only 29. Wow, she is mature and has worked with me for 3 years.