This is so sad.

Do you still love your wife? It sounds like she's not giving you much of a chance. I don't know what to say to help you except to consider me one more person who is sending good thoughts and best wishes your direction. Somehow things will work out for you.
Have you told her that you are trying but it will take both of you in order to succeed? What does your counselor say about her not giving you support, and about you moving out?
<font color=red>"Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing." -Harriet Braiker</font color=red>
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