"Te amo" was what you were telling us... I hope the feeling still is there. Gee, with husbands like that who needs... oops.

You know what? That's HIS problem! You do the best you can and quit accepting the guilt he tries to pin on you.

TC If you can impress upon your spouse that he needs to hire someone to assist (not fire ppl!) that would help imo. If he can't be supportive, why.. ooops again.

TC!