<font color="green">I don't have littles but I have had full blown flashbacks occur when my dh did something that triggered me. I sat down with him when we were not in bed or about to be intimate and explained that when he did those things I couldn't handle it. He has been pretty good about my triggers but it is not always easy for either of us. Perhaps you and your dh could come up with a code word that would let any littles know that this is not the time for them to be out? He probably felt that he had prepared you for what came next, when we don't tell our spouses what is going on in our heads then they don't know.
I don't know if this might be triggery for others so thought I would mark it so and let yall read at your own risk. </font> 
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