okay...when i get to a working phone at pdocs tomorrow. I went through his stuff. Tossed the porn and drug stuff though because i doubt he would report that missing and only would serve to get me in trouble. When i when i went to the hospital, i gave him my phone because i couldn't talk and so he could call me and also to contact family. I found out last night that he contacted no one including my neighbors. Everyone had to ask. This from someone who has apparently been acting friendly towards me and my neighbors to gain our trust. This man will not cross my door again. I just relised that he was part of the of the issues that drove me to the attempt. I feel stronger now and half done with cleaning the house. I also glad you all are here! Cyber hugs needed.