firstly id like to state that i do have pretty severe clinical depression and have been in this episode for over a year and a half. ive been with my boyfriend for nearly eight months now and im 16. before ive been able to get properly lubricated and digitally penetrated but even with one finger that hurt. basically, we tried to have [protected] sex today for the first time and he couldnt really get it in... eventually he got the head in but that hurt. a LOT. i dont think that it was my hymen but the pain didnt subside for hours later... and getting it in after that was basically impossible. im not on meds and i dont know why this happened or what to do... i definitely wanted to and i felt comfortable and safe etc... but getting at all lubirated after he got the head in was basically impossible. can anyone help?