To answer your questions:

"Let me ask you something. When you and a man find and attraction towards each other do you always offer to pay for yourself?"
I haven't ran into guys that are interested in me. I rarely go out on dates, generally nobody ever asks me out. So yes, when I'm out with a guy -who is usually just a friend- I always pay my own share.

"Another question what kind of men are you attracted to?" Nobody. Everybody thinks I'm cute and cool, gentle, kind, dependable, kinda like a little sister or a confidant. That has always been my role. They see nothing more.