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Aug 03, 2009, 10:39 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
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Originally Posted by beadlady29
T and don adn others offen remarks that say uor thinkign ain't right. this is frustrating because how do you know some other way to think i mean we has thunked the way we does all our lifes adn dont know any other way too think it makes sense to beads the way we think does.
If we are in therapy to make our life better then we probably have some thought adjustment to do. When a person grows up in a dysfunctional family, dysfunction is what is learned. It is okay. It is okay to not be perfect and need to learn. It certainly is understandable why. How can anyone escape a dysfunctional environment without learning some dysfunction? I certainly learned a lot of it and I spent a lot of time learning what was "normal" or more functional. It does not mean that you are bad or anything! Are you hearing those tapes in your head that your dad planted there?????
ummmm about that lady and her shop she called beads other day and pissed us off so when uor caseworker comed ove asked her ta take us there adn i went in adn took EVERYTHING uot of there adn let them no that wuodl not be back.!!!!!! dotn need do business with folks like that plenty a other places we can take uor work. Plus we put some of it in a art gballery saturday. hopefully it will do well there once folks no it is thre.
Very good, you go girl! Ooohhh, an art gallery! Keep me posted!
welll,,,,,,,moveing day tommorow and beads scared! dotn nuthing seem real just pretty numb adn spending a lot of tiem takeing turns some of us moer then one at a time floating on the ceiling!
 Changing your environment can be unsettling
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