How do I deal with my bf who doesn't know how or just forgets to balance his long hours at work, his passionate hobbies with the air-soft sport. I support him in every way with anything that he does and I dont want him to stop enjoying it. But what I ask for is for him to balance things out so that he's also spending time with me too. He thinks that by picking me up after work, having dinner together and then relaxing for the evening is good enough. I want to feel that he's excited and putting in the effort to take us out and do things outside of our home. He saids that he doesn't have much money and I say we can make the best of what we have and go to the parks and lake. When it comes to his hobby he'll always find away to go and maintain the sport to buy the suppiles. He gets so excited for the sport and I wish he can feel the same way with me. It could be anything that he does air-soft, working on cars, computer games, hanging out with the guys whatever it may be isn't the problem but I want to feel that he's always including me in his choices of options and not forget about me. I've talked to him already on three time and we always end up fighting. He gets upset bc he feels that he can't make me happy and I get upset that I feel he's not understanding how I'm feeling. How do my bf and I work around this? I don't feel that I"m asking for too much but tell me if I am.