Do you believe that there is one person out there for each of us? I did. I mean I do. I thought I had found The One, we had our problems but what couple doesn't?
I had been with him for almost 6 years. I really and still do love him. But he said that he couldn't make me happy and so he dumped me.
I am 22 and so that means that when we started going out we were both really really young. But I thought we were just really lucky to find each other so soon! I was happy for most of the time.
But now I'm just kinda lost. On saturday I went on a date with someone else. It was fun and he was funny but I'm not physically attracted to him. Anyway as these things go I wanted to tell everyone about my "date".
Because I started going out with my ex-boyfriend when I was so young, that was actually the first date i have EVER been on. And so naturally I wanted to tell my ex-boyfriend about it. Not because I wanted him to feel jealous, but because he was my best friend.
Now in a round about way this leads me to my question, if my ex-boyfriend was The One, does that mean that I will never had that complete love and just utter contentment again? Will I just have to settle for second best forever?
Has anyone ever thought they had found the love of their life, only to realise that there was someone even better than that? Is there still hope?
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