I have a 23yr old daughter who blames me for everything that has gone wrong in her life. She is a very cheerful, funny, giving person but I think she might be bipolar or/and narcisstic. She is very jealous of her younger sister and very resentful of her step-father. Her dad died when she was 6 years old, I do believe that has affected her quite a lot. She used to be an adorable child, full of life and laughter, she has grown up to be quite bitter and has so much anger in her, it scares me, I keep telling her that she has made some bad choices but she will not take responsibility for anything and blames me for everything. I have made mistakes with her but I have admitted it and I have tried to help her time and time again but she conveniently forgets those times.
I love her more than life itself (that is an easy one since I hate life!), I would do anything to help her but there is nothing I can do to solve her problems, I know she has to live her own life and make her own mistakes but right now with my deep depression, she is more than I can handle. I have to detach but everytime I try to do that she says I dont love her, that I dont care for her.
Sorry for this rant, just needed to get it out on the screen.
Any mother out there who have similar relationships with their daughters?