Hmmm...

Where to find men? Good ones?..Hmmmm...That is a good question.

I'm much like you, Marjan. I've always gotten along better with guys, too.
Had maybe only 2 real girlfriends my entire lifetime. Hung out with guys most my life. Heck..I was raised with 7 brothers, and besides one other girl, all the kids on the street were boys.

I grew up quite the tomboy.....never was into the girly, cutezie pink n lace. I liked what the boys liked to do...so that other girl and I really didn't share all that much in common.
In fact....the girly, "I broke a nail", squeeky, giggly behavior irritated me for many years....lmao.

As far as where to find the men.......Gawd..that's a tough one. The first thing that comes to mind is, maybe find places that many men hangout at? Ewwww...that means, sports, bars and couches...lol..JUST KIDDING!
Seriously, though.....maybe if you can stomach sport events you're bound to find many there, (though many are the muscle heads). How bout at fitness centers?...Find yourself a well buffed hunk at one of those places.
(I like the auto events....antique and classic car events...even car races..those are fun fun fun).
Let's see..where else.....Where do men hangout?

Hmmm...gawd.....(Thinking outloud with a touch of humor here..lmao)....
Let's analyze this a bit.....What do men like?
Men like, food, sports, cars, sex and money, (not necessarily in that order).
There it is..If there's other interests..then either I'm completely unaware of them, or those few rare men who do have interests outside of that list of 5 things are few and far inbetween.

Perhaps there are some men out there who would like to offer some ideas?
Obvoiusly, my insight is highly hindered here.

Anyhow, Marjan.....Continue keeping the faith. That is what will get you through this.

Thinking of you~

Shangrala