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Originally Posted by Pomegranate
((((((Marjan)))))) your mother is a truly crazy person who can't see beyond her own needs and wants. Stop trying to get water from a stone. You could try telling her that if she doesn't have anything nice to say when she calls, you would rather she not call until she can think of something nice or positive to talk about. Keep your conversations with her short.
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Thanks pam for your reply....well...she's my mother, what can I do? I can't really abounden her from my life...specially that she doesn't have anybody...I'm just so happy that I'm not living in my country with her, because she could continue her abuse more over there!
She has damaged us badly, mostly me and my older sister....my younger sister is 8 years younger than me and mom wasn't that stricked with her!
I'm going to take her out shopping on Saturday....god bliss me dealing with her tempare and attidudes....she doesn't like me that much because I don't like gossibing with her!
Yesterday, I found out she gave money to both my sisters...ha...very interesting...it just slipt out of her mouth!
anyway...she doesn't want to stay longer and she wants to leave....it's just so sad that she's not happy at all...and she's leaving us like this...I wish she could understand it...
she's complaining about our life and she doesn't see that lots of people are out of jobs and doing worse than us even!
thanks again for your support
M.