Okay, so I will say one more thing. If I were still a teen and was the one I was, I would not be posting in a teen forum as I wouldbe looking for adult support and my issues were not regular teen issues. At least back then no one spoke of the torture I lived and the hatred I endured for being alive. Miss A, please relax, be who you are and in my opinion age matters diddly poo. My baby graduated highschool tonight and she is 17 and so incredibly wise, she has taught me more then anyone in my life. She has helped me to learn to love people even when they are being poo-heads, she has taught me to see things fully and much more. And she too knows the "real world" having been molested at an early age and suffering from OCD for 10 years. We are who we are, age is pretty irrelavant to me. I want you to move away from this issue now okay? No I am not parenting you, I am saying the same to you as I would anyone. Maybe you want to ask to have this thread locked now so you can move on and get and give the support you are so good at.