I have asked for the thread to be locked thanks wise women and darkeyes for suggesting that. But now I see that most people have voted for 18 years old that is a senisable age group but would it be too old to start joining when they have to talk about their pasts. I feel 16 years old should be the best in bewteen and reasponly understandable. 13 years old , I think that they can post but can't reply to such a dramitic problem. I'm 14 going to be 15...the teen forum sounds ok, but its going to take a lot of work to do for what it is. I can't make the decision myself as its you guys and gals that need to think what you are comfortable using these forums. Feel free to PM me about this topic, if need too!