Yes him is my husband of 15 years, two kids later. He was arrested for 2 battery charges, what he actually did was touch unconsenting-unknown females in two public places, which is called frotteurism. Then lied to me about it all. I received a phone call from an anonymous female telling me the truth. I made him leave and then let him come home a month or so later, but i still am having trouble being in the relationship. I guess I avoid my feelings or something. I just wish i could be happy again. Today is really a down day after a down week. I need to clean the house, its a mess, but i have no interest in doing this, but have to. I dont feel like I care what my husband does anymore. I dont trust him to tell me the truth. He doesnt communicate his feelings about anything. He things saying I love you takes care of everything but for me it doesnt. He has told me that all along but yet was out touching other women and then lied to me about it, how can he love me?