I hate to tell you this but he doesn't seem to be trust worhty at all. If he's making you this unhappy then I would try to sort something out. It's like you are been treated not as a wife but a house tool and baby sitter and your not by the way. Your a caring loving mother and wife, that shouldn't be treated like this. If you told him you feel like he doesn't even care about you and won't spend good time with you and the kids then maybe he shouldn't be a husband or father. It sounds like romance is missing the relationship. He says he loves you? But what does that mean to you when he goes out for fun with other girls. Not exceptable at all! Has he kept doing this still behind your back and if he is what do you want to do about it...? I'm listen.