View Single Post
 
Old Aug 06, 2009, 08:17 AM
Shangrala's Avatar
Shangrala Shangrala is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Sep 2008
Location: SanFrancisco BayArea, California
Posts: 1,404
Quote:
Originally Posted by jerrymichele View Post
I would be upset to. What I would do is make a phone call to the ex. I wouldn't even tell your son about it. Your ex might be doing this to get back at you. Tell him if it happens again that you will do supervise visitation with him. Safety for your child comes first, so if that means making someone upset then that is just what you have got to do.
Dang, Michele....
You give some good advice! I would have never thought of that.

This is a hard situation, cuz this is primarily a matter between the adults, yet directly includeds the child, (dad using son as a tool and deliberately disrespecting both you and your son).
Hard choice to decide what to do.
Michele...you found a solution to it perfectly.....Yay you!...lol.

Amy, I hope this works out for you. I don't blame you for being upset whatsoever. It amazes me how blatantly inconsiderate & spiteful some people can be out of their own selfishness and ignorance.

Best wishes~

Shangrala
__________________


IU!
Thanks for this!
AmynAz