Thread: trust issues
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Old Aug 06, 2009, 09:53 AM
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I am very sorry to hear that.

I will admit that I agree with porrlittlefish. You seemed to seek support while staying with him, so I did not get into the 101 reasons why you should toss him, but give me permission and I will is that on your mind? or are going to stick it out with him no matter what?

Its a tough spot, one I cant help but not understand fully from either side, one thing I have found is that unfaithfulness is not a situational "thing", its a moral "thing".

I hope you find the strength to deal with this what ever the outcome.
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