I know it's really hard, but why didn't you just ask for what you needed? You could have gotten what you need if you had. When you were little, you were helpless and the people who were supposed to meet your needs without you asking didn't do that. But now you have the power to ask for what you want and need, and perhaps that is why T is not doing what you want unless you ask. Maybe he is trying to help you see that you are no longer powerless. It's great when people somehow know when you need something and just do it, but that gives them the power. Plus, they would only be guessing because no one can possibly know what you really want or need unless you tell them.

take good care tree