I agree with all the other posts on here. What happened in the past stays in the past. I've been stupid enough to ask my bf some questions in the past, and I get upset about it. I get mad because he goes back and lives like he is still in the moment. I then get pissed. Then he blames it on me saying you shouldn't have asked. When he ask me about my past I don't go to much into it because I think that he might get upset like your husband has done with you. If he brings it up again just say the past is the past, and we should just leave it in the past.