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jerrymichele · Aug 06, 2009, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxanneMurphy

If all of those times have happened in the past, and not since you've been together, then he seems to be overreacting. However, I'll give you an example of my own personal experience. My experience is very limited. I only dated one other person before my husband, however, there was a few one night stand type of deals. Then, there's my husband, who has slept with over 30 girls/women before we got together. Some of them he has as friends on MySpace, and one we went over to her apartment where her boyfriend and son was. It was very awkward and I held my tongue about it for over nine months. I can understand how your husband is, except he's taking it to much more extreme. The way I see it as that he's put his junk into so many other women. Also, because there's been so many women, he has a lot less to give to me (because it's been around so much) than I do to him.

Like Marjan said, avoid bringing anything up about the past. He can't seem to realize that it's your past, and just that. However, in my situation, the women that he's slept with still bugs me, but not nearly to the point of which it's apparently bugging your husband.

As long as he doesn't start getting physically abusive, than it just might be able to be worked out, however it's going to take some compromise on both ends.

I really wish you the best of luck.

I would just like to add that I also would have a problem with a situation like this. Roxanne I don't know how you did this for so long. That would be a very uncomfortable situation. I hope that he still isn't like this.