Going is not something you have to do all the time. Only when you are unable to keep yourself safe. Use the hospital stay for making long range plans with your T and Pdoc. Often one stay can be all that's needed... because of such agreements and understandings that develope because of the stay.
Maybe if you have other non-cooperative parts, you might need to go back to help them make the same plans for safety? It's up to your system, up to how good your T can communicate with it. But, no, it's not a way of life just because you are DID.

TC