(((((((((((((((((((sky))))))))))))))))))))) thank you and so true. t and i have talked about that. i don't think i have to worry, though. she was semi-close to all of her other grandchildren when they were younger and then pulled away from them as she has everyone else in her life.

she will do the same to him, and will more than likely use me as the excuse AFTER she uses him as a pawn to try to get back some control over, and attention from, me.

i'm watching closely. thank you again.

kd