If possible, have your H put it out of his mind. Don't give the pdoc another 2 seconds of thought--he is not worth it.

From what you described, it sounds like your H might benefit from seeing a therapist. There is not a shortage of therapists like there is of pdocs, so you shouldn't have to wait long. Most pdocs these days only like to prescribe meds anyway, and it sounds like your H needs more than that. If your H needs you to accompany him on the first appointment for support, the mental health provider should allow it.

Hope your H will look for a therapist and don't let this discourage you.