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Originally Posted by Kiya
I don't know about you, but I feel like I totally need outside help - someone to be here by my side (not rescuing me - being rescued puts the rescuee in the debt of the other), reminding me my CHOICE to walk away, and my skills, my power, where i am going and why. Does that make sense? otherwise, it is all just.... a smoke screen. I know that T does this. but that one hour of the week just doesn't cut it. this is too big. I've been mired here too many years. like those souls on the Flying Dutchman (from Pirates of the Caribbean II) who become so incrusted with sealife from Davie Jones, they become part of the ship.
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Yes, that totally makes sense. As does the Flyilng Dutchman analogy. I have my T also, who broke away, apparently painfully, from her family too. Who do you think would fit the bill for someone to support you, beyond that hour per week with T? Someone to keep reminding you that you can do this, and that it is your right and responsibility to be free, and to live your own life?
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