Thank you, that is good advice. We are going to hang on to this first dr. for now, even though he is still very upset, simply to be able to get him on some meds to help him. I am going to scout out some walk-in clinics, that I have just learned about since this happened. and perhaps the T at the walk-in won't be so judgmental. I am still shocked that someone in the mental health profession could be this way. she should have asked him WHY he felt like a victim instead of just dismissing him and telling him that he was not one. We've been through enough already, we don't need bad doctor's on top of it. Thanks for your advice, if anyone can't think of something we haven't let us know. thanks again.