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Old Aug 07, 2009, 01:35 PM
Anonymous29412
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Originally Posted by SpottedOwl View Post
What are you afraid of happening if you don't pick a fight with T?
What would happen if you were able to reconnect with him?

I also had another thought -- what if you aren't trying to 'reconnect', but maybe this is the first time the little one is trying to connect with T. Yes, you've been seeing him for 21 months so part of you knows how compassionate he is...but is it possible that the part of you that needs to heal the CSA stuff has never been able to connect with T?
Little tree connects by sitting with T

OMG. Maybe I am trying to prevent THAT connection....little tree and T...and by preventing that, preventing more work on the CSA stuff. And maybe that was the disconnect...*grown up me* didn't want to ask T over because I am trying to protect us from going there. *little me* wanted T to come over and hold her hand.



ETA: thanks for helping me think this through spotted owl...i actually just e-mailed a bunch of this (my part, not yours) to T.
Last edited by Anonymous29412; Aug 07, 2009 at 02:19 PM.
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