well hehe. I dont really agree! mom is a grown woman but she CANT take care of herself.. see the problem is she has brain trauma/damage from having menengitis 8 times between 3 and 27.. she had a hole in her inner ear leading directly to her brain.. but also as she is aging she is getting more and more mentally unwell,and also is losing her memory/and or getting senile. We think anyways. Personally i think that she would do so well in the apartments for seniors under the old folks home - she can still take care of herself but there there are nurses upstairs if she needs help or goes into one of her suicidal fits.

Your right i do need to focus on me and jer, and i do, but being disabled in the home sucks.. and as i said before family seems more and more to not want to help me and avoid it.

See if i moved back to city i would have friends around me to help..