{{{{{{fayerody}}}}}} I've took awhile to read your post careful. I know how stressful moving can be takes time to pack everything in boxes then put it in the moving lorry and then take the stuff out the lorry and unpack everything from the boxes. I have moved a couple of times so I know. She asked if you could babysit for her, but in the end she didn't want you to. Next time you shouldn't say that you will babysit for her again because of what happend. That was really selfish to do a daughter asking her mother for looking after her child when she does nothing in return. Have you got any one else to help you that is reliable? Angerment hmm my dad needs that and he can't see how much he loses it! But it can be hard when someone you know have an anger problem. Don't let it get to you, none of thsi is your fault! Feeling betrayed is the right to use even more then hurt. My relationship with my mum keeps changing as I grow older. I hate her...then like her... then dunno? She's ok. You could as one day to go out with you daugther maybe shopping or going out for lunch together and try to talk about stuff.