just a couple books to add to the list:
Manic by Terri Cheney (fantastic, wonderful, amazing)
Living Well with Depression and Bipolar Disorder: What your Doctor Doesn't Tell you that you need to know
by John McManamy (title's a bit wordy - but the book is wonderful. I'm not through with it yet. Reading it pretty slowing, underlining here and there and dog-earing many-a pages.)