(((((((((((((((((((abbi))))))))))))))))))))))) I think journaling is a great idea. Everyone can write if they wish and get to know each other. You don't have to keep it if you don't want to or if you are ready take it in to your t. It may be easier than trying to tell her out loud. Healing can take a while and each of you will go at the pace that is right for them. Soemtimes it is slower than others would like but it will come in times and try and be patient for them.

BB