I met my husband online, i was divorced after 14 years to a man who didnt love me, i went on line a year later and met alot of different people, most of them nice, but looking for the perfect woman, who is perfect? when I met my husband, i told him this was the last time i would be matched and if he didnt like what he saw, to please just politely walk away ( i am a plus size woman most of the guys i met wanted a size 4... havent been a size four since 4th grade lol well, we met july 19 2005 and have been together ever since! there is someone out there for you, but if you are feeling negative about the online stuff now, get off of it for a while and just be, enjoy what you have, there is someone out there waiting for you. Little did I know, my future husband lived less than a mile away from me, we married in 07 on my birthday and that was the nicest gift ever! Hang in there, you will find your true mate...