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Old Aug 09, 2009, 04:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Calista+12 View Post
Lack of Object Constancy: When a person is lonely, most of us can soothe ourselves by remembering the love that others have for us. This ability is known as object constancy. Some people , however, find it difficult to evoke an image of a loved one to soothe them when they feel upset or anxious. If that person is not physically present, they don’t exist on an emotional level.
This makes a lot of sense. Thank you so much Calista. I am definitely going to talk to T about this.

That word "L*ve" is a very difficult word. It had too many other meanings for me growing up and just makes me cringe (or throw up, lol). But I do understand the remembering part.

Thank you also for that link Calista. I am going to print it off and take it to T.
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Thanks for this!
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