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Old Aug 09, 2009, 03:08 PM
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anybody delt with a mommas boy?
I been dating this 26 yr old for 7 months i am 4 months pregnant with his kid and his mom is getting inbetween us. Every time she calls its allways the same come up to see her (even if he just saw her 4 days ago) she allways wants him to stay for a week or come up and move back in. she only met me once but before she even knew me she said i was a brainwashing manupulative and all i was interested in him was for his money. At the time he didnt even have a dime to his name. She get angry at him when he said no because we dont have the money for gas. I also dont have the money to be paying for a phone with 300 minnutes on it if she calls every day and talks to him for 20 minutes at a time. I finnally just told him to go up there cause i cant compete with her. So now he is back with mommy and i am stuck 2 hrs away pregnant and i dont know how to deal with this. All i wanted was a family of my own and now im stuck with his kid in me and i been getting so depressed that i dont even want the kid. I have even caught myself praying for a miscarrage like my last one.
i dont know what to do anymore. I dont know weather to trust him on when he says he will be back before the babys born. I think his mom is brainwashing him. She rather see him go on disability for jsut bipolar disorder than to see him get a job. And he had a job but walked out on it due to mommys command. he would of made 1600 a month.
What your opinion on this situation?
Am i wrong for feeling like a peice of trash and even worse for not even wanting to go through the pregnancy anymore?
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