Writingwithink
cool choice of name
Welcome
Here's hoping you can find a way to broach the subject with your current T. In the meantime it would be really good to see you around PC and perhaps on this Forum.
Your concerns are important and there are some intelligent and wise answers to be found here.
Is there some way for you to extend the gift of time to yourself. This 'DD thing', from our experience, takes some time and should be allowed to unfold. In the meantime, do take care and happy to meet you.

Hunny