OK can i just say one thing from a male point of view. Women aren't the only ones who suffer when a relationship ends. As they say it takes two to Tango. Men may hide their emotions and it may seem like we can do,say and feel anyway we want. Inside deep in our guts guys are also hurting maybe even more since usually men don't have the same type of support groups woman have. I can't even imagine going to a male friend and saying my ex just ripped my heart out and stomped on it. Or that my girlfriend just walked without a word. For the most part other woman don't want to hear that as well. The first thought is what did you do wrong to make here leave? I don't mean to hijack this thread but please understand that there are good men out there We are far from perfect but still good guys with good hearts.