Hello PC Family,

Hope all is well with you. Just wanted to let everyone know that I finally ended things with him for once and for all. I am STD Free and DRAMA Free. I ended things last Saturday for good. Of course I went and gave him another chance after he followed me to the movie theater the last time. However, last week he started acting different and distant. Started being disrespectful towards me and also when he found out about my education started making me feel bad for being intelligent. He started calling me a nerd trying to be cool. I was so shocked by this. I would think a man would be proud to have an intelligent woman by his side. However, he may want someone unintelligent and emotionally and finanically needy. That is not me. Well to make a long story short, he called me last Saturday just as usual. Well I try to call him back on his cell and he doesn't pick. So I thought to myself maybe he is working. Well I call his house phone and guess what??? His Ex girlfriend picks up his phone. I couldn't believe this....a third time he does this to me. I spoke to her and told her who I was and she said that her and him were more than just friend, etc. That when they argue, he talks to other women. I started stratching my head and saying to myself (is she really ok with this). I immediately told her that she would never ever have to worry about me with him again. Three strikes you are out buddy. I said this is too much drama. They go back and forth and when things aren't right with her he comes calling me. I don't want to be apart of the drama and confusion. I couldn't believe. I knew she shouldn't be answering his phone, because he told me she snooped through his stuff befrore. So apparently he has done something for her to snoop and go through his stuff. So that was my signal to end all of this madness. I went through unnecessary mess with him. So I call him after talking to her. He tries to act cool. So then I blast him with the news that his ex or whatever the hell she is picked up the phone and we conversated. I told him that I am a human being and didn't deserve to be treated that way. He can't go around playing with people's emotions the way he has. Then he starts saying I don't know why I keep letting her come back to my house, all we do is argue and she snoops through my things, I know its not going to work out, etc. I said you know this is an ongoing unhealthy vicious cycle that I no longer want to be apart of. You know that relationship won't work, but you keep allowing her to come back anytime she gets the urge. I told him that he was damn near 40 and still playing games. He says I wasn't playing with you, he says he doesn't know why he keeps letting her come back because she blows up his phone, etc. I just told him finally that I can't do this again with him and told him good luck with her. I told him to LOSE MY NUMBER and NEVER CALL ME AGAIN! That I have lost all respect for him and that I didn't deserve to be treated like he did. I also told him what goes around comes around. He text me later that day and said Ok, if thats what you want, he wasn't trying to hurt me at all. He just can't explain why he allows her to come back. I didn't respond back. So its been a week and a couple of days since I told him to lose my number. I do in fact feel good, it was the hardest thing to do, but was for the best. Thank you guys for your support. This chapter in my life has ended. I am ready for the new chapter to start. Since then I have started meeting other men. Wow, I really was wrapped up in him and not allowing anyone else in. I still do miss him, but I know he isn't for me.